POSITIVES behind the NEGATIVES

Everyday we met new people and new faces with different personalities. There are lots of reasons for this particular event in our life and these people may play some important roles. 

"Some of them became our friends, partner, family and sometimes an enemy."

When we start to build a strong relationship with our friends, we treated them as our "family". We cherished and enjoyed the times that we were with them; we laugh out loud, weep together, and we've shared everything that we have with them.

"It's good to know that even if we're not family by blood, we believe in our hearts that we're family with one heart, one goal, and have this great LOVE for each other."

But there are times that those people that you've treated well and even consider them as your second family will become your worst enemy and will "tell" stories behind your back. At first "it hurts" a lot but everything happens for a reason and for new lessons. Friends and family may become an enemy to us but as we analyze and think about our situation, there are always positive things behind negative situations in our life. Distractions are everywhere and it may came from our friends and family. We can't predict what will happen in the future but God knows everything, specially our future. Most of the time we enjoy everything life has to offer or I should say "everything that the world will offer". We can't tell that our situation is bad unless we experience the negative impacts of it. Just like having some vices, we enjoy it at first but we can't tell that it is bad unless someone or the doctor will tell us the effects it brought to us. Just like knowing our friends, at first we can't tell that nothing wrong will happen between our relationship unless they will show their real color.

"Being true to each other doesn't  mean you never lie to each other but being true to each other means you NEVER SPEAK BEHIND EACH OTHERS BACK. You stay true to them even if they're not around."

There are always second chances in every bad situation, God allows bad things to happen for us to see our need for His presence and His help. He revealed bad things at His right time for us to learn the lessons that He wants us to learn at the right time. Bad things made us stronger than before and that is the will of God; to make us stronger for the future circumstances that we will face.

 

Friends may come and go but God will never leave us badly wounded without reaching His hand to us saying "My child, it's time for you to start all over again. Would you start it with me now?" The question here is, are you willing to start it with God this time or you will let Him wait again for the next time that you will stumble? When our door is open that was the time that we can't hear clearly what God is saying to us. We always have this choice to close the door to avoid distractions to come in. But are you willing to close it for a moment for you to hear His voice? Just try and you will see. It's better to be in His presence and face our problems with Him than to be in the "worlds" presence that when you fall down, you're not sure if there is someone who will pick you up and will help you to start all over again in a right way.

In our journey called "life" it's easier to travel when you remove all the excess baggage on it, things that will never help you on the next steps that you will take.

"It's not easy to forgive but when you receive God's love and start all over again with Him, forgiveness is not a choice but a desire of your heart to live peacefully and to make your Heavenly Father happy and proud to have a child like YOU!"

"True fulfillment and happiness comes from the Lord alone!"